These are our choices when we want to stop [feeling hurt]:
(1) change what we want,
(2) change what we are doing, or
(3) change both.
– page 71
The problem is that our [subconscious ideal] worlds do not recognize the impossibility of any picture we put into it.
– page 150
Most of us fear being creative because we are afraid that something new will be criticized.
– page 175